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Three Rivers Center for Independent Living

900 Rebecca Ave.

Pittsburgh, PA 15221-2938

(412) 371-7700

Toll Free (PA Only): 1-800-633-4588
Fax: (412)371-9430
TTY: (412) 371-6230

www.trcil.org

 

Disability Pride Newsletter
Volume 2, Issue 6
June/July 2006

 

In This Issue:

Advocacy Calendar
"Home Sweet Home"
Important Dates

"I Really Did Not Know"
Mission Statement
Ms. Wheelchair PA

Quotes

Resource Spotlight
Smiles
Survey Results
TDDP

Thanking Donors

Volunteers

 

I Really Did Not Know

By Lucille Collette, IL Skills Trainer

 

On 12/10/05 my life changed. I fell off of a stool; it was that simple. As a result, I had two crushed bones. I was not able to bear weight on my foot for 13 weeks which resulted in hopping around with a very heavy cast and the assistance of a walker. The very first time I went up stairs, I had to stop on every other step. I cried, saying “I can’t do this”.
          As time went on, I began to realize that this was a life experience for me. I could only be alone for short periods of time. I wasn’t cooking so I was not able to decide what I got for dinner. When those coming in to help were late, I felt frustrated and lonely. I agonized over who to call when I needed something. I had always been the helper, not the one asking for help. My family, friends, and neighbors were great, but they had lives too. As the weeks extended, I could see that everyone was getting tired, but there were still some things I could not do for myself.
          My greatest gift became my organizational skills. If things were left in the right place, I could be more independent. I made a list of things I needed by my side. If people put things too low or in my pathway, routine tasks became difficult. When I started back to work, the ultimate organizational skills were needed to get out of the house in the morning. Many things needed done the night before and had to be placed within arms reach.
          I learned so many things that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I quickly found out that you need to ask for help in some situations, as uncomfortable as it may be, but also to figure out how to do as much for yourself as you can. From independence grew strength, courage, and optimism. I never gave up my will to do what I needed to do.
          I am walking very slowly now with a cane for assistance. I feel I am better equipped to relate to my friends and consumers who have disabilities. I always thought that if I had a disability I wouldn’t be able to handle it. Now I feel that I would do whatever I needed to do. Although my body may eventually be what it was, my perception of life and how we live it has changed forever. I really didn’t know how difficult daily living could be and how much I took for granted.

 

Advocacy Calendar for June/July 2006

 

June

 

June 9th
Legislative Breakfast
Take this opportunity to get to know your local legislators. Help them put a face to our issues. Please RSVP by June 5th.

8:00 to 11:00 am
TRCIL, 900 Rebecca Ave.

 

June 14th
Letter Writing Event
A letter writing activity to protect home and community based services. Light refreshments provided.
11:00 am to 2:00 pm
TRCIL, 900 Rebecca Ave.

 

June 19th
City County Task Force on Disability
1:00 to 3:00 pm
Civic Building, 200 Ross St., Downtown

 

June 26th
D.A.R.E. Meeting
Disability Advocates for Rights & Equality
1:00 to 3:00 pm
TRCIL, 900 Rebecca Ave.

 

July

 

July 12th
Letter Writing Event
A letter writing activity to protect home and community based services. Light refreshments provided.
11:00 am to 2:00 pm
TRCIL, 900 Rebecca Ave.

 

July 17th
City County Task Force on Disability
1:00 to 3:00 pm
Civic Building, 200 Ross St., Downtown

 

July 24th
D.A.R.E. Meeting
Disability Advocates for Rights & Equality
1:00 to 3:00 pm
TRCIL, 900 Rebecca Ave.

 

July 26th
Disability Pride Day Rally
Come show your support of the disability movement!
11:00 am to 1:00 pm
Allegheny County Courthouse Courtyard

 

RSVP is requested for all events. Other events may occur after printing. Please contact Brenda DaRe at 1-800-633-4588 x148 or bdare@trcil.org for details.

 

Important Dates

June 27th
          Helen Keller’s Birthday

July 26th, 1990
          The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was signed into law by President George Bush. To learn more about the ADA, visit www.usdoj.gov/crt/ada.

 

Quotes

 

“Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.

 

“The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” -Marcel Proust

 

Resource Spotlight

By Cindy Williams, Information & Referral Specialist

 

Allegheny County Peer Support Warm Line offers support and information and a friendly voice for mental health consumers and other interested parties. The number is 866-661-WARM (9276) and is available 4 pm – 8 pm 7 days a week.

 

CHIP – Pennsylvania’s Children’s Health Insurance Program provides free or low cost insurance for children 19 years of age and under. The comprehensive coverage includes routine check-ups, prescriptions, dental, vision & hearing, emergency room visits, mental health, and durable medical equipment. For more information call 800-986-KIDS (5437).

 

The Consortium for Citizens with Disabilities is a coalition of approximately 100 national disability organizations working together to advocate for national public policy that ensures the self determination, independence, empowerment, and inclusion of children and adults with disabilities in all aspects of society. Task forces focus on rights, legislation, transportation, technology, and health care. Their website is www.c-c-d.org.

 

Ms. Wheelchair PA

The Ms. Wheelchair Pennsylvania pageant is a competition to select the most accomplished and articulate spokesperson for persons with disabilities across the State of Pennsylvania. Even though delegates participate in pageant form, it is not a beauty contest.
          Ms. Joycelyn Banks of McKeesport has been selected as Ms. Wheelchair PA 2006. She is currently a Rehabilitation Specialist at UCP/CLASS of Pittsburgh, the author of two novels, and enjoys swimming, reading, writing, and crafts. She will be competing in the Ms. Wheelchair America pageant this July.
          Ms. Wheelchair PA is currently looking for candidates to compete in the 2007 competition. If you are interested in learning more or applying to become a delegate, please visit their website at www.mswheelchairpa.org.

 

Survey Results

          A new U.S. Department of Labor survey has found that accommodating employees with disabilities often doesn’t cost the employer anything. Accommodations and needs were met through simple solutions like work schedule changes. It was reported that accommodations with cost, on average, were around $600.
          For more information on this survey, please visit www.dol.gov/odep.

 

Smiles
When you are in your casket, what would you like people to say about you?
     Artie: “That I was a wonderful husband and a great family man.”
     Merle: “That I was a good teacher who made a difference in people’s lives.”
     Don: “I’d like them to say, ‘Look! He’s moving!’”

 

Telecommunications Device Distribution Program

By Christina Chamberlain, Deaf Services Coordinator

 

The Telecommunications Device Distribution Program (TDDP) is a program by which qualified Pennsylvanians with disabilities can obtain telecommunication devices free of charge. To qualify for the program, a person must be a Pennsylvania resident, have a disability, be six years of age or older, have access to telephone service and have an individual gross income of 200% of Federal Poverty level or less.
          Equipment that is available through the TDDP program includes: TTY’s, TTY with Braille display, Amplified Phone, CapTel Captioned Phone, Hands-Free Speaker Phone, Voice Carry Over and Hearing Carry Over phones, Cordless Phone, Cordless Headset Phone, Talking Telephone, Voice Activated Dialer, Photo Phone, Big Button Phone and LinkPlus AAC Device. Along with a phone product, you can select various ring signaler devices to alert you to when the phone is ringing.
          All equipment comes with a one-year warranty and will be repaired free of charge as long as the damage is not the fault of the user. You may apply for a new device every 5 years.
          If you are not sure which of these devices best fits your needs, you may borrow any of these devices through the Pennsylvania Initiative for Assistive Technology (PIAT) Lending Library free of charge.
          For more information on these programs or for applications, please contact Christina Chamberlain, Deaf Services Coordinator at TRCIL Services at (412) 371-7700 Ext. 140 voice, or (412) 371-6230 TTY.

 

Home Sweet Home

By Amy Graves, Housing Counselor/Skills Trainer for TRCIL Office in Erie

 

The time has come for one of our consumers to transition out into the community. The road has been long and the wait even longer. Through it all, he has kept his spirit high and has surpassed the true definition of patience. There have been plenty of ups and even more downs. He has been on a waiting list for housing for over a year. But as each day passed his motivation to live independently grew stronger. Young in both age and heart, he knew that his lucky stars would bless him and he would find a place to call “home sweet home.”
          After meeting with the consumer for the first time, I saw first-hand his spirit to live, his independence, and perseverance. This attitude motivated me and was a reflection of his true inner character. I was driven to help transition him back into the community. He had been living in a nursing facility for nearly two years. I was determined to assist him to find him a place to call his own so that he can spread his joy to others in the community.
          We began by filling out applications. He didn’t protest against all of the paperwork. Instead, he kept asking for more to fill out. He was determined to live independently. He knew he could, and that he had the right. Call after call told him that he would be placed on waiting lists in various counties. He was told that it could be anywhere from 6 months to a year before anything may become available. In an effort to find something sooner, I began calling property owners to ask them if they had any available accessible units.
          As I was doing this, a compassionate advocate for independent living said that she had the perfect apartment for our consumer. We jumped at the opportunity that he had been waiting for all these months. Words cannot express the amount of joy I felt in my heart and the sense of accomplishment that swept over me. In the end, all of his hard work, determination, and patience to follow through with something he wanted paid off.
          He will be moving into the accessible apartment on June 1
st, 2006. There is a count down acknowledging the number of days left before this 36 year-old soul starts a new chapter in his life. When asked what he looks forward to after his transition, he said “A disability should not stop you. You should always think positive. I’m happy I am moving into the community. I’m excited to meet new people, make friends, and be socially independent!”
          The last steps for his transition include preparing him for the skills needed to succeed when out in the community. We began packing his things up and I took him shopping for all of the things he needs. He propelled around the store grabbing his new items excitedly. After our shopping adventure he simply shook my hand and said “Thank you for letting me have this opportunity to shop today.” I saw the joy and excitement pour out of him. He had waited so long and finally will have a place to call “home sweet home.

 

 

Thanking Donors

TRCIL would like to thank the following people for their generous contributions…

Denine Menozzi
Raymond Wojszynski, Jr.
David Zak

 

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” –Aesop, The Lion & the Mouse       

 

To make a donation, please visit our website at www.trcil.org/donations.htm.

 

Volunteers Needed!

We are currently recruiting VOLUNTEERS to assist TRCIL in many areas. If interested, please contact us at 412-371-7700 to request more information regarding volunteer opportunities both inside and outside of the building. If you are interested but don’t think you’ll “fit in,” please call us FIRST! Dates and times are flexible and reasonable accommodations can be met. We need assistance in all areas, so CALL TODAY!

 

Mission Statement

To empower people with disabilities to enjoy self-directed, personally meaningful lives by providing outstanding consumer controlled services and by advocating for effective community change.

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